相信要再調整一下自己的心態和生活習慣。
自從 Daniel 晚上因氣管敏感而睡不好後，自己的身體亦變差了。星期日看中醫，醫師說肝火上沖，來到今天仍很熱氣，亦很累。可以想像，有了細細後，情況可能會更壞。
另外，有些功課，只會在出問題後才學會。
爸爸不久前提醒我要多點支持娘子，這點我很認同，但應該如何去支持，卻是沒有什麼概念。直至這幾天，當娘子的精神和身體都到達極限時，才知道情況之不理想；然後還需要娘子講出來，才知道所欠缺的是什麼。
果然，做一家之主是不容易的。但既已決定，便會欣然走下去。
開始看清楚擺在前面的困難是什麼（完全是後知後覺！），需要自己去放棄更多，投放更多時間、精神在這個家。所以，大概會少了時間去寫 Blog 的了。
3 則留言:
我在想，可能不是減產不減產。而是你要認真「安靜」下來，重新寫下在現階段你生活中的優先次序 Priorities in life.
關係永遠都是最重要的。你要感謝上帝你有一個善解人心意的妻子。正因為如此，她在這段身、心、靈都疲乏的日子，需要更多支持。有時，一個眼神、一個擁抱、出門、歸家的擁吻，可以有很好的效果。
還有，你要一改「遊魂」的懷習慣，i.e.當你做任何的事，都要專心做。Good planning can avoid mistakes & save a lot of time.
為您們祈禱。
"support" is different in each family.
do support but have to know your limits. Don't tired yourself out. it is no good for all.
do voice out if you need help, we are "old" but can still offer help when needed.
We are one family, don't forget it. there is no "不好意思" exist. REMEMBER THAT.
Listen, Observe and hold your temper esp when you are 肝火+++.
be a good listener and reassure when needed.
just as U said :- 一家之主不易.
love
Dad
When I said 減產, that's not my goal but side product. I think I know my current priority in life. It is a matter of carrying things out as planned, which I'm not good at, especially when I'm tired.
Being physically and mentally fit is one of my priority. So, no, I won't tire myself out. Don't worry.
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